Sunday, April 14, 2024

The Absent Parent

During my second year in Zurich I might have bragged about the number of days I spent not working. I think it was something like 34 days of vacation.  Well, in a similar vein, in the last month, I accidentally had 20 nights away from the kiddos, and I definitely wouldn’t call that a bragging fact. It actually makes me quite sad. I miss the family. 

It wasn’t going to be this way. Yes I had seven nights in India booked, 1 night up in Bend with just Cody and Brenda before the family arrived. The kids were slated for two nights with my parents to wrap up the first week of spring break and then I had two nights for a girls weekend in Vegas. Yes it seemed like a lot but it seemed manageable. 


But shortly after the India trip, things went sideways. After only three nights at home from India I tested positive for Covid. And so began my seven days of quarantine. 


Quarantine ended three nights before my flight to Bend. And thankfully soccer Saturday morning was canceled so Martin and the kids were able to get to Bend much earlier than expected so we were able to make the most of our four night Easter trip at Sunriver. 


We left Sunriver Wednesday morning, And due to logistics, it made more sense to drop the kids off directly at my parents house for a three night stay instead of trying to coordinate drop off Thursday morning. 


We had a nice Saturday before I left for Vegas where I am pretty sure the kids were done with me being gone and made more than a few comments about me leaving again. 


So all in, 20 days. Which is at least 14 too many.


Wednesday, April 10, 2024

Las Vegas Round 2

I clearly had such a great time with the Zurich girls in Vegas in January that I accidentally and inadvertently convinced the Colorado girls to have our next girls weekend there. Given I was just there I was actually contemplating sitting this one out. But then FOMO set in when the plans started to firm up. Oh hell I was in. 

The two day “weekend” of Sunday through Tuesday was shaping up in a very similar way from the January trip. Nice dinners in the casino of residence (this time the Wynn),  a spa day, some shopping and a super early flight home Tuesday morning. 


Dinners were amazing, shopping was a bust (I wasn’t looking to buy but the other 3 women came in with very large budgets and very long lists of items to buy but left with nothing), the spa was incredibly relaxing (being a Monday morning probably helped although I will say the amenities at the Aria were more conducive for a full day) and my flight home was thankfully not canceled due to doors flying off airplanes. 


We also spent some time gambling this trip. We all placed bets on the NCAA championship game (I broke even) and, come to find out, Emily is a big time gambler (although I shouldn’t have been surprised since our rooms were comped). We played craps and blackjack and lost on everything but had a great time in the process. 


With a tickle in my throat Monday morning and the threat of work looming for Tuesday I opted to not drink all day on Monday. It was the right call but I still managed to feel hungover all day on Tuesday and looked the part of someone returning from Vegas on the flight home.


Tuesday, April 2, 2024

Bend for Easter

There is truly nothing better than a big vacation house and time spent with family. It also helps that said vacation home was in the most family friendly area near Bend OR called Sunriver. 

The trip can be summarized as follows: a ridiculous game of Charades where clues included: stairs, rock, and Hermione Granger’s wand, a daily soak in a hot tub and so much good food


Tuesday, March 19, 2024

India for Beginners

It is hard to believe that this is my first new country in over 8 years! And my first time truly traveling alone internationally in possibly 15! I guess I shouldn’t have been surprised to find that I was actually nervous and excited to go to India for work for a week.  It is hard to summarize the experience, especially since most of my time was spent at the office, but let’s just say it was an incredible trip and I am excited to get back to see more of the city of Pune and the broader country!

Below are a few ruminations from the trip: 


Unlike past experiences with traveling eastbound, the jet lag wasn’t nearly as terrible as expected.  I was up early every morning (and in some cases earlier enough to hit the hotel gym) and managed to stay up for dinners out with the teams (although they were forced to eat “early” at 7:30pm so I wouldn’t fall asleep at the table). 


I stayed at one of the nicer hotels in Pune, the JW Marriott, which definitely caters to the international business traveler who wants to experience Indian culture through a western lens. I was greeted by every staff member with palms pressed at the heart and a “namaste”, and they always had a musician playing traditional Indian music in the lobby. On any given morning I would hear German, English, American, Swedish and who knows what other languages. It definitely is a hotel for those who want to ease into India. The good thing is I had plenty of co-workers willing to show me the local experience, including driving like the locals do through the packed roads.  The only way to describe driving in India is organized chaos.  Most roads didn’t seem to have designated lanes and there was a constant beat of polite, happy honks to alert the other drivers that three cars across the width of the road were about to become 4.  


The hospitality from everyone is unreal. For example, on my first morning at the hotel, the restaurant hostess gave me a bowl of Asian soup without asking because she said it would be a good, healthy start to the day. She wasn’t wrong. Turns out it was my favorite Thai soup, Khao Soi noodles, that I haven’t been able to find since leaving Switzerland. The next day she grabbed me fruit,and after seeing me struggle to peel some very hot hard boiled eggs she brought me two more already peeled. And this is just one example of many. My coworker insisted on picking me up and dropping me off each day at the hotel on his way to work and another co-worker ensured I was safely in the car to head back to the airport before she went back inside to work. 


Eating with your hands really is a thing. The day I left for India the kids watched a show with Martin about India. Martin later sent me a text informing me of some things I should know: In India you eat with your hands and when drinking from a bottle, the glass shouldn’t touch your lips.  My very first meal with the team (India food at lunch in the office) two people mentioned that they eat (certain foods) with their hands using a tortilla-like bread.  And while they didn’t agree about not touching their lips to the glass when drinking, they in fact did just that later that week at the amusement park.  


Overall, the food was incredible.  I couldn’t get enough and wanted to try it all, refusing nothing and telling my teams to not hold back on the spice factor. 


My two teams in India (the day shift and night shift) couldn’t be more different than day and night. The day team (your standard accountants) were all vegetarians (with the exception of one) and only a few of the ten person team drank alcohol. In the complete opposite was the night shift team (the billing and analytics team) who all ate meat (with the exception of one) and all but two of the ten drank alcohol. However, not surprisingly, they are so similar in the fact that they treat each other like family and look out for one another. 


With five days only in town, we did manage to have a team outing to the theme park Imagica on Thursday. It was nice to get out of the city and out of the office and see a little bit of the surrounding area.  Between the breakfast stop and the entire day at the amusement park I saw only one other white person. And I got more than a few stares from the younger kids in the park which I am 99% sure was because I was the only white person within miles of the place. It was nice to feel out of my element again after so many years.  


Unlike prior travels, I didn’t master the basics of the local language (hellos, goodbyes and thank yous) and I never figured out how to convert INR to USD quickly.  For example, I needed to grab some cash out for tips and random things so went to the hotel lobby ATM. Even researching the exchange rate ahead of time I was confused. Not wanting to pull out too much I took out 1,000 INR or the equivalent of $15. It actually lasted through the entire trip. 


And my final thoughts, while I was willing to eat almost anything thrown my way (and thankfully not suffer the consequences due mostly in part because I got prescription grade drugs before leaving San Francisco), I wasn’t completely ready to try non bottled water. As a result I unfortunately contributed more than my fair share of plastic water bottles to the ever growing plastic pollution in the world. I will need to figure out a way to offset the damage once I get home.